Planning and How to Make a Home, Household, or Family Budget Plan

Planning or how to make a family home or household budget plan

Planning a household or a home budget plan does not need to be impossible, it may start with a fight and may be a rough path like the picture above, but it does not need to be impossible and there is light at through the trees of the budget forest.

Ok, in all seriousness, so then how do you how do you make a family home or household budget plan?  If you have not already read the post titled How to Make a Good and Realistic Personal Monthly or Weekly Budget Plan, and Stick with it and Save Money, then you should begin there as this post will just build upon that post and narrow down on the more specific topic of creating and maintaining a family budget rather than just generally make a budget.  So go back to How to Make a Good and Realistic Personal Monthly or Weekly Budget Plan, and Stick with it and Save Money, and make sure that you focus on the step of determining what your needs are and what your wants are for your family.  What makes this different than just making a budget for yourself is that you will have the rest of your family that will need to provide input on what they feel is essential or important, and what they feel are wants as opposed to needs.  As in the related post, How to Make a Good and Realistic Personal Monthly or Weekly Budget Plan, and Stick with it and Save Money, this is going to be a project that is specific to you, and now, specific to your family.  It may seem like adding in your family’s thoughts on wants and needs is going to create a complex web of wants and needs that will surely catch your budget in its sticky threads, assuring its stumble and ultimate failure, but this too is accomplishable.  You will need to stress the importance of truly evaluating what it is that you want and what it is that you need.  This is going to be particularly difficult for the young ones, as they may feel that the movies or laser tag is essential to their survival.  It may truly feel like that to them at whatever age they are at, but this is where your seasoned wisdom is going to have to step in and take over.  Of course, them being on board is important to the success of the budget, but they too should eventually understand.

Another added level of complexity is going to arise in the actual maintaining part of the budget because you will have to make sure that the rest of your family realizes how important it is to maintain the budget and why it is that you are maintaining the budget.  To do this, give them a stake in maintaining the budget.  Just as in How to Make a Good and Realistic Personal Monthly or Weekly Budget Plan, and Stick with it and Save Money, you will have to give them a reason for fighting, something to look forward to, a “carrot” so to speak.  This, again, will be very personal to you and your family, so make sure they know this is why they are working so hard to stay on budget.
Finally, make sure to schedule follow up meetings to show progress.  This may not be that important to everyone, but it will help you to assess progress and let them know whether they are getting closer to their goal, and whether or not they are doing a good job.  Never underestimate the power of positive reinforcement, not to mention seeing that “carrot” becoming closer and closer into view.
So to be clear and simple follow the steps here and then focus on and add the additional steps below.
  1. Schedule a family meeting;
  2. Assess your family’s wants and needs;
  3. Give them something to fight for; and
  4. Schedule follow up meeting 
This is not going to be as easy as making your own budget if you were single.  You have to fight for this as a team, and thus, there has to be a reason that everyone is involved.  For another related success story check out this recent article from Your Money at MSN titled “How We Saved $10,000 in Just One Year.”  This is really just a story of how she got her family on a budget and saved money, breaking her never ending, detrimental credit cycle.  A decently long article, but a good read.  You must remember though, as some commenters have pointed out and as pointed out in this article, how much you save and your particular budget are going to depend on your circumstances.  However, just because you do not make what you consider to be tons of money a year does not mean that you cannot benefit from creating a budget.
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